It was one of those perfect September mornings when the sun was warm but not overbearing, and a gentle breeze whispered through the trees like the low hum of a distant jazz band. I found myself standing in a small queue at the tee box, mentally preparing for what I hoped would be a solid round of golf. In front of me stood a man who immediately caught my eye—he was wearing a flowery, slightly-too-loud-for-the-course bossier shirt. He carried an antique golf bag slung over his shoulder, looking as though he’d strolled straight out of a 1940s film noir, or at least the gift shop of a very niche thrift store.
The shirt wasn’t the only thing radiating brightness—this guy had a smile that could charm the grumpiest of golfers. As we shook hands, I could feel a sense of peace radiating from him. He didn’t just walk—he sauntered, as if the world was his stage and we were all just characters in his daily drama. His handshake was firm but warm, and when he spoke, his voice had the smooth, polished tone of a late-night radio DJ, the kind you listen to while contemplating life’s deeper mysteries.
“Name’s Tony Dadika,” he said with a grin that hinted at mischief and wisdom in equal parts. I returned the introduction and felt an instant connection, something like the spiritual equivalent of finding an extra ball in the woods.
Tony, it turned out, wasn’t just any ordinary golfer. In fact, after a couple of holes, I learned he wasn’t much of a golfer at all. What he lacked in precision and form, he made up for with an infectious enthusiasm. But here’s the kicker: Tony was an actor, and not just any actor—Tony Dadika, a name that rang a faint bell from one of those movies you catch on late-night cable. I couldn’t pinpoint his latest role, but that didn’t matter. What mattered was his ability to create a sense of joy and camaraderie, even when his ball flew wildly off-course and landed somewhere in the neighboring county.
Our golf crew was rounded out by two other guys, both decent golfers, and both much more serious about the sport than Tony and I. Yet even they couldn’t resist his easygoing charm. Every bad shot became an opportunity for one of Tony’s classic one-liners. After a particularly bad slice, he quipped, “If that ball goes any further, we’ll have to forward my mail to it.”
Between his jokes, Tony peppered the round with pearls of wisdom. He talked about life like it was a long, winding golf course—sometimes you land in the rough, sometimes you hit the green, but either way, you keep playing. “The game isn’t about winning,” he said as he lined up a putt that would take at least two more strokes to sink, “it’s about enjoying the company.”
By the end of the round, my scorecard was irrelevant. Sure, I might have added a few extra strokes, but what I gained from the experience was priceless. Tony had turned what could have been just another round of golf into something far more meaningful. It was a round filled with laughter, shared stories, and, most importantly, a renewed sense of the simple joys of life.
As we parted ways, Tony flashed me one more of his radiant smiles. “Until next time,” he said, as if we’d been friends for years. And with that, he sauntered off, leaving me to ponder how a round of golf had turned into an incorporeal journey.
Credits
Orchard Hills Golf Course
Chat GPT
By
Ahsan Jamil
Golfer, Blogger, Entrepreneur, Author, Poet, Wanderer, YouTuber. Conservationist.
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